Beginners Simple Guide To BDSM

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Introducing something kinky and new into a relationship can be difficult, but not impossible. It takes open communication and trust, and a slow start. Rushing can put a quick end to more than just an encounter, it can mean the end of an entire relationship, so approaching it the right way is important.

Step 1: Set Some Limits

There’s nothing worse than being manipulated into doing something uncomfortable, so be open and honest about any fantasies or desires. It can’t hurt to ask, especially if you approach it in the right way. Find out what their limits are; are they comfortable with being tied up or would they rather be the one to do the tying? How do they feel about spanking and punishment? Would they feel good in a costume? They might even open up with a few secrets desires of their own.

Step 2: Begin Slowly

Once a discussion has taken place and limits have been set it is time to play. Begin slowly, introducing one element of BDSM at a time. Too much at once may intimidate and overwhelm a hesitant partner and put a quick stop to that fun play. Start with a blindfold, and next time add some restraints, working up to a paddle or a flogger. Remember no surprises here, at least until both partners are completely comfortable.

Keep it light and slow, and keep the lines of communication open at all times. With some patience and compromise, introducing some BDSM play into your lovemaking can be simple and enjoyable.

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